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How To Soften Your Child’s Natural Hair

“Oh no! Mummy is coming again, with her army of combs and hair products. My poor head. The pain will start. I’ll start crying. My head will start aching…This my hair is too hard”, Grace murmured to herself.

While your child may not be called Grace and you may not know what’s running through her mind, this is what she probably feels when it’s time to do her hair.

If you can’t relate and your child absolutely loves doing her hair, then hurray for you, please tell us the secret!

However, for those who can relate and their child’s hair is just so hard, keep
reading: You’ve come to the right place.

So back to the ultimate question, “How Do I Soften My Child’s Natural Hair?”


There are so many remedies, mixtures, tactics that people try all day long to make their child’s hair softer but it really comes down to just 2 things:

Detangle and Moisturize

The more you moisturize her hair, the softer it becomes.

The more you detangle her hair, the softer it becomes.

Sounds too simple to be true but it really is that straightforward.

Let’s discuss these 2 things in more detail.

Detangling

This is the process of removing tangles and knots from the hair.

Detangling is something that should be done routinely on your child’s hair wash day.

It can be done before or after shampooing the hair.

If your child has fuller or longer hair, detangling should be done before
shampooing.

Why?

The shampooing process gets the hair knotted and messy.

So, if the hair is already detangled before shampooing, the detangling process after washing is greatly reduced and it saves you a lot of time.

For detangling, there are 2 main rules:

  1. Don’t detangle dry hair.
  2. Always detangle in sections.

Now, let’s go into the things you’ll need for detangling.

What You Need For Detangling

  • Spray bottle with water
  • Clips for sectioning
  • Wide-toothed comb or detangling brush
  • Detangling conditioner or oil

How To Detangle

  • Spray enough water to soak the hair completely.
  • Section hair into halves or quarters.
  • Apply your favourite oil or detangling conditioner all over the hair
  • Section the hair into smaller sections to make it easier to work with.
  • If necessary add more water and conditioner (or oil) to make sure it’s saturated.
  • Next, finger-detangle: Using your fingers, from the tip, separate the hair into smaller sections. This will help to remove large knots.
  • Then use a wide-toothed comb (or detangle brush) to go through each hair section. Start at the tips, then move downwards to the scalp.
  • When each section is thoroughly detangled, with the comb passing through easily, put that section into a two-strand twist.

If you follow these steps and do this consistently, your child’s hair will get softer and you’ll have a happy child.

So, on to the next thing that will help make your child’s hair softer.

Moisturizing

When you moisturize hair consistently, it becomes softer. This is a known fact.

So, adding a daily moisture routine for your child’s hair is a good way to soften her hair.

With a Daily Moisture Routine, the main focus is not on detangling. The focus is to add moisture to the hair and stretch the hair out as best as you can.

After doing this, then, you can detangle if you need to, or you deal with detangling on wash day.

With moisturizing, the main rule is: Be gentle.

So, use your hands and fingers, rather than combs.

Using combs will make the process more stressful for you and painful for your child.

How Do You Moisturize?

  1. Use a spray bottle to add moisture to hair by spraying hair all over.
  2. Spray enough water to truly moisturize the hair. This is because when the hair is moisturized, it’s easier to manipulate.
  3. Separate hair into sections and apply a moisturizer of your choice to each section.
  4. Use your hands and fingers to pull at hair and stretch it out.
  5. Brush and smooth hair out and style.

And that’s the process of moisturizing.

Then, you can go straight to styling without the need for combing or detangling.

However, if you do feel the need to detangle, simply incorporate the detangle steps into the moisturizing steps.

Conclusion

With detangling and moisturizing, you have the key to getting your child’s hair softer. Plus you have a happy child.

It’s that easy.

It’s important to remember that it’s not about the products you use (although, the right products play a role in keeping your child’s hair healthy) but about consistently doing these 2 things: Detangling & Moisturizing.

And one more thing you’ll need, Mom: Patience.

Be patient and take your time while doing your child’s hair.

Hope this helps in handling your child’s hair.

Let’s know how it works for you in the comments below.

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